Guide to achieve great orgasms and self pleasure for women! - LOVE DEPOT
Guide to achieve great orgasms

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Added on: Jul 16, 2021

    Have you ever wanted to get turned on and experience some mind blowing orgasms? Do you wish to embark on a journey of discovering your sexuality? Welcome to the only guide you’ll ever need on self pleasure. 

    There are many ways to indulge in self pleasure, and in today’s world there is a plethora of sex toys and sexual aids that you can use to reach that big O. Self pleasure sans a partner is also a very safe way to experience pleasure, without having to worry about pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases. Solo female masturbation also has several health benefits such as it helps to reduce stress, enable better sleep, relieve menstrual cramps and makes you feel more comfortable with your body. 

    Here is a detailed guide on everything you need to know to experience self pleasure

    What are the different methods of solo female masturbation?

    Your body consists of different erotic zones and stimulating any of these zones can help you attain self pleasure. Today, there are sex toys and sexual aids available for all kinds of orgasms and based on what gets you on the most, you can decide which toy to use during solo play. Here are the different types of orgams one experiences to attain sexual pleasure:

    1. Clitoral orgasm: 

    The clitoris is one of the most sensitive parts of a woman’s body. It has a whopping 8000 nerve endings that are extremely sensitive to touch. Women often use their fingers to attain clitoral climax but you can use vibrators, and other clitoral toys to get turned on and stimulate your clitoris during solo play or solo female masturbation. 

    2. Vaginal Orgasm:

    If penetration turns you on, then you can try achieving a vaginal orgasm to attain sexual self pleasure. There are many sexual aids such as didos and vibrators for women that are available to help you get there. Get turned on and feel your vaginal muscles throb with powerful vibrators and the best sex products during solo play! 

    3. Anal Pleasure:

    Some people are into anal pleasure, and you have a variety of anal toys to help you get comfotable. Remember, the anus does not produce natural lubrication, therefore it is very important to apply a lot of lube before you indulge in any anal play. Explore a range of the best sex products available for anal play on our online store to get turned on! 

    4. Use a combination of toys and more:

    During solo female masturbation, if you want greater pleasure you can use both your fingers as well as a sex toy for greater sexual pleasure. For example, you can use a sex toy for penetration and your fingers for a clitoral orgasm. The more the merrier!

    5. Explore other sensitive zones in your body:

    Your genitals are not the only erogenous zones in your body. Remember when Monica from Friends talks about 7 erogenous zones in the body? There are many many more. You can squeeze your nipples, use feathers, ice cubes, gels and many more on your stomach, inner thighs etc. All these zones produce pleasurable sensations in your body, which you must explore during solo play!  

    How to get started on your journey towards self pleasure?

    Solo female masturbation or self pleasure is a very personal experience for every woman. There are no defined sets of rules for self pleasure. One method might work for someone else, but it may not work for you. Masturbation and exploring sexual fantasies is a journey that takes a while before you can truly become comfortable with your sexuality and your body. If you’re a beginner to masturbation, no worries – you have a range of the best sex products and safe sexual aids to help you get started. 

    1. Get the ambience right:

    Getting your environment in the mood is as important as you getting into a sensual mood. You dont want to mastubate in a dirty, smelly or noisy environment. You can apply nice bedsheets, dim the lighting, light some candles, use aroma therapy and home fragrances to set the mood. You can also play some sensual music to get turned on.  

    2. Lube up: 

    For some reason, there is a stigma around using lubricants during sex or solo play. It is assumed that all women naturally produce a lot of lube to get turned on which is not at all true. Many perfectly healthy women have trouble producing natural lubrication and there’s where artificial lube comes into the picture. These lubricants are sexual aids that are safe to use and they also come in really fragrant flavours! Lube helps relieve any pain and enables toys to penetrate your vagina much more easily during self pleasure. At Love Depot, shop from a range of natural, flavoured, silicone, and water based lubricants! 

    3. Let your imagination run wild:

    Do you have a major crush on someone at work? Or is there a date you’re looking forward to the following weekend? Whoever it is, allow your mind to engage in sexual fantasies with this person. Imagine in graphic detail what turns you on and what sexual acts excites you the most! Your imagination is often the gateway to the big-O. If you’re having trouble imagining, you can read erotica or watch pornography. However, while indulging in solo female masturbation, make sure that the porn you watch is verified and has performers that have consented to perfoming sexual acts in the video.

    Explore the best sex products on our online store to get turned on for solo play and help your imagination run wilder! 

    4. Explore other erogenous zones: 

    As mentioned before, engage in some nipple play, thighs etc and feel every sensation come alive. 

    5. Take your own time:

    Self pleasure is not a competition. It’s not about who reaches an orgasm first. Play around with different parts of your body and see what turns you on. Slowly experiment with different sex toys, sexual aids and the best sex products during solo play to see what you like the most. 

    Let’s explore each orgasm in greater detail

    1. Clitoral self pleasure:

    As mentioned before, the clitoral is insanely sensitive! The clitoris is twice as sensitive as the male penis. Ladies, it’s time to stimulate your clit and get some mind blowing orgasms. Here’s how you can experience clitoral self pleasure:

    • To get turned on, you can start by slowly caressing and feeling your outer pubis and run your fingers up and down your outer and inner vulva 
    • Find your clitoris and slowly start rubbing it back and forth in a rhythmic fashion. Once your clitoris becomes wet or after you’ve applied lube, you can increase the pace of stimulation.
    • You can also buy a vibrator for women from our online store, to reach an orgasm! 

    That’s pretty much it to clitoral solo female masturbation! Find a rhythm you like, stick to it, increase the pace and achieve self pleasure. 

    2. Vaginal self pleasure:

    Many women initially find it difficult to get turned on and achieve self pleasure through vaginal penetration. Getting there is a journey, that you can experince through your fingers or sex toys. To achieve a vaginal orgasm, here are some things you should do:

    • It’s important that the vagina be wet before you penetrate it with your fingers or a sex toy. You can use lube, and slowly apply it in your vagina. You can also rub your vagina from the outside to stimulate the nerve endings on your vagina and clitoris. 
    • Once you are sufficiently wet, slowly insert your fingers inside and create an up-down thrusting motion with your sexual aid.  The same can be done with a dildo or vibrator for women too. 
    • Increase the pace of motion and feel your heartbeat racing. You will experience a tingling sensation in your fingers and toes and also feel muscle contractions in your inner thighs. All these sensations indicate an upcoming orgasm. While you may experience a big orgasm, don’t worry if you don’t. You will still experience a lot of pleasure and get turned on throughout the whole process. 

    Vibrators, especially G spot vibrators for women are a great way to stimulate your G-spot, the most sensitive area in your vagina, for those coveted explosive orgasms. Do invest in a good sexual aid or vibrator on your journey towards self pleasure. 

    3. Anal Self Pleasure:

    The rectum and vagina share a wall where the G spot is located, so you can indirectly stimulate your G spot by indulging in anal self pleasure. But, as stresed upon before, make sure you use plenty of lubrication before you indulge in anal play! 

    Here are some steps you can follow to achive anal self pleasure during solo female masturbation: 

    • Start by rubbing the outer opening of your anus  and slowly insert a finger inside your anus. You can also insert a sex toy inside once your anus is fully lubricated. 
    • You can either try a circular rhythm or normal in and out penetration. Increase the pace until it builds up to an orgasm. 
    • Toys are a great way to achieve anal self pleasue! Use anal beads, butt plugs and vibrators to get started. 

    While, it may initially feel uncomfortable, with regular experimentation through sexual aids, get turned on and enjoy solo play to the fullest! 

    4. Combined self pleasure:

    Why not turn things up, by simultaneously stimulating various erogenous zones in your body? To really get that full body experience, 

    • You can use both your hands to stimulate various erogenous zones such as your inner thighs, nipples and neck. You can also use a combined or hybrid vibrator to stimulate both your clitoris as well as your vagina. 
    • You can use your fingers to stimulate your clitoris and a sex toy for vaginal penetration. Make sure you use the best sex products for safe and pleasurable penetration. 
    • Slowly build up the pace for both and experience mind blowing orgasms!

    Combined self pleasure is a great way to get turned on real quick, and also experiment with multiple areas of your body. Foreplay toys, dildos and vibrators for women are a great place to get started during solo play! 

    Self pleasure and solo female masturbation is a wonderful way for all of us to feel heightened sexual experiences and become comfortable with our sexuality. It is when we figure out what we like, that we are able to share these experiences with a partner too.

    At Love Depot, shop from a range of clitoral stimulation toys, anal toys, different types of vibrators for women, foreplay toys, BDSM toys and more to get started on your journey towards self pleasure! 

    It’s time to break those shackles and embrace new sexual adventures!

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    Added on: Nov 28, 2022

      They say a lube can really uplift a sexual experience by encouraging a sense of smoothness, confidence and consistency in maintaining a comfortable rhythm. Couples can use and should treat lubes as an add-on, especially when they intend to experiment with positions and toys. In fact, using them with sex toys - whether you’re alone or with your partner, is an essential step in making your sexual journey as smooth as possible - pun intended.

      The market has an array of lubricants available and while they all serve the same purpose, their ingredients can and do differ. The most popular bases for lubes are:

      • Water
      • Silicone
      • Oil
      • Natural


      One of the most popular choices from the world of lubes is water-based lubricants. They have no taste, feel very much like natural lubrication and are less likely to irritate or inflame sensitive skin. They are safe to use during oral sex as well and are generally absorbed quickly by the skin unlike others. Added benefits include being completely compatible with condoms - as compared to most oil-based sex lubes or petroleum jellies that can corrode latex. They are also extremely compatible with sex toys and we highly recommend using it during your play time.


      These lubricants do not contain water. While it may work for many, and not so much for others, your sexual journey is not set in stone and exploring your choices is a healthy way to understand what works best for your skin and body. These feel a little different on the skin as they don’t get absorbed quickly like water or oil as silicone-based lubes are hypoallergenic in nature. They can be safely used with condoms and don't require as many reapplications. The only major drawback is that it cannot be used with sex toys as they tend to solidify on them and may leave a sticky residue. 


      If you want to avoid reapplying lube, we recommend you use an oil-based lubricant. But bear in mind that these lubes are not compatible with latex condoms. There’s a risk of the condom ripping or tearing during the act - making it unsafe and compromising on the protection factor (against STDs and unplanned pregnancies). Some other concerns that rise with using oil-based lubricants include staining of sheets and clothes. But they can be doubled up and used for massaging your partner, so go ahead and give it a try some time. We recommend you don’t use oil-based lubes with sex toys as it can hamper the quality of the silicone and damage it.


      There’s always going to be a time when going natural is a ‘natural’ choice for many. Especially for those who are concerned about certain ingredients that go into the manufactured products. In such cases, using coconut oil is a popular choice. But it comes with added risks like condom breakage and staining of sheets. Also, the coconut oil used for daily activities should be separate from the one being used for your sexual activities. Avoid using it with sex toys as they aren’t compatible.

      Now that we’ve given a detailed lowdown on the various types of lubes available, it’s up to you to make the right choice for you and/or your partner. Remember to stick to water-based lubricants if you intend to use them with sex toys. Find our entire collection of lubes here:

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      Added on: Nov 28, 2022

        Ever wondered if there’s something out there for you to experience firmer erections, better stamina delayed ejaculations without actually consuming any form of drug or medication? Well, say hello to Vibrating Rings aka Penis Rings aka Cock Rings.

        Multiple names, one fabulous goal. Penis rings - whether they vibrate or not - can pump up your sexual performance to a whole new level. Maybe it’s time you explored this side and became your own very own “lord of the rings”...Excuse the pun, but you know what we mean, right?

        Key Features: Most Vibrating Rings are designed for extra pleasure. They are discreet, waterproof, and noise-free. They are made with quality silicone and have zero allergens - making it safe on skin.

        How to use? All vibrating rings are designed keeping in mind the same end goal - ie. to deliver the ultimate form of pleasure. But here are a few essential steps to keep in mind while using them.

        Step 1: Before putting on a cock ring, apply and spread a decent amount of lube around the inner part. This will help it slide down a penis more easily. Note: Preferably use a water-based lube to avoid causing damage to the ring. Step 2: Make sure your well-lubricated penis is semi-erect while placing the ring over the head and sliding it down the shaft and onto the base. You can place it over a fully erect penis as well, depending on your girth or the size of the ring.  Step 3: Start off with a position you and your partner are comfortable with - like missionary or even doggy in some cases and then you can move on to experimenting once you’ve got the hang of it. Important note: Avoid keeping a cock ring on for more than 20-30 minutes. Although the blood flow restriction is usually safe in short bursts, it can eventually turn painful after prolonged use.

        Why use it? The joy of mutual stimulation can be ultra exciting so why not give your sex life a sensual upgrade? Vibrating Rings are available in various shapes and forms but are all designed to be adjustable to make sure it fits no matter what size. The beauty of using these with your partner is that it works towards achieving mutually explosive and almost synchronised orgasms. Yes, it’s possible.

        Some of these rings are ergonomically designed with a small appendage or extension, which is almost like a small bullet vibrator which which is meant for clitoral stimulation, which is key to achieving wholesome female orgasms.

        Some rings are designed to enhance a man’s performance by curbing the blood flow to the penis - leading to harder and long-lasting erections. A smarter choice to make over popping pills, what say?

        Some vibrating rings come with bluetooth technology. These rings can be controlled with  a few good buttons and  take your orgasms to the next level. Explore and play with a range of different vibration modes to level-up your sexual experience.

        Couples in long distance relationships can invest in a vibrating ring that can be controlled no matter where you are in the world, with the help of an app connected to your ring - making sure your intimacy game stays strong and exciting despite the distance!

        If you’d like to check out the various kinds of Vibrating Rings that are available for your pleasure, here’s the range available on our website.

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        Added on: Nov 28, 2022

          Hello you. Welcome to this space - it’s safe and non-judgemental, with a whole lot of information on how to go about your sexual journey with an array of toys. Yes, we mean sex toys… And no, we aren’t going to shy away from the subject matter.

          The world of sex toys has a lot to offer and finding the one that works best for you is something we are excited about. For those wondering if it’s safe to use them… Yes, absolutely. Every toy has something wonderful to offer and is designed to be safe for intimate use.

          Let's talk about the various kinds of toys that are available for your pleasure. But first, it’s essential for you to know what you like and the kind of stuff you’re into. Are you into solo play or couple play? Or maybe both? Well, we can broadly segregate the many toys available on Love Depot into 2 major categories. 

          For Solo Play Enthusiasts It’s time to give “self love” a whole new meaning because having a partner isn’t a necessity anymore. Apt for those who are single, aren’t exploring or indulging in casual (but responsible) sex, these toys are designed to achieve exciting solo play experiences. They can work wonders as you slowly explore your own body, understand it better and take a deep dive in the world of self-stimulating pleasure.

          For Sexually Explorative Couples Sometimes adding certain sex toys to the mix of your sexual encounters with a partner is a great way to add a hint of exciting spice to your sexual bond. One may think it may hamper and maybe even overpower or replace the “human touch” experience. But don’t worry! We believe it has the power to amplify your sexcapades, deliver mutually stimulating orgasms and so much more. Sounds amazing, right? It certainly can be.

          Here are 6 product types that we think you should know about and consider owning at some point in your l

          G-SPOT VIBRATORS Safe to use on skin, waterproof and rechargeable every few hours, these toys are meant to be hybrid in nature. Strategically designed to hit the spot - pun intended, we believe it is a great way to explore and stimulate a woman’s g-spot. Whether you’re new to the world of toys or someone who is in the process of building a collection, a range of vibrating toys are available for various levels and have anywhere between 10-15 vibration modes to make the journey towards achieving explosive orgasms a lot more thrilling. Here are all the G-spot Vibrators available on our website.

          Ideal for: Mainly used for solo play but can be experimented with during couple play.

          TIPS TO USE: How you go about using these toys will depend on the toy itself. Most of them come with a basic step by step guide on how to use them but here are some things to keep in mind while using any g-spot vibrator.

          • Use enough lube and be gentle as you slowly work on yourself.
          • Eventually you can experiment with different levels of thrusting, slow massaging, clenching around the toy, gentle stroking and more, to see which technique works wonders for your g-spot.

          CLITORAL VIBRATORS Designed to deliver ultimate pleasure to a woman via clitoral stimulation, these vibrators have the power to empower a woman and her sexual needs. Give your clitoris the attention and love it desires with super sensual and manually customizable vibrations that make for great variations in the way you climax. Some toys are discreet enough to be used beyond your bedroom and even while you go about your day.

          Here are all the Clitoral Vibrators available on our website.

          Ideal for: Mainly used for solo play but can be experimented with during couple play.I

          TIPS FOR USE: It’s important you feel comfortable before choosing the play with these vibrators. Lay down alone or with your partner and explore this wonderful tool together. They usually have different vibration modes to offer. Here are some things to keep in mind during usage.

          • Begin with by gently using it over your erogenous zones ie. neck, breasts, thighs, shoulder, etc.
          • Eventually move to your vagina and play around with the various vibration modes to see what stimulates you the best. You can do this with or without a partner. Doing it with a partner is almost like a lesson in communication and bonding so go ahead and make it worth their while!
          • Once done, don’t forget to wash the vibrator with warm water and unscented soap. Store away in a cool and dry place

          AIR PULSE STIMULATOR Just when you think you’ve understood the beauty that is the clitoral and g-spot vibrator/massager, here comes another crazy toy. Adorable to look at but has a reputation to deliver bomb dot com orgasms, the Air Pulse Stimulator is every solo play enthusiast’s must-have. These come with multiple sucking or pulsing modes that are designed to stimulate the clitoris, but can also be used on nipples and other sexually sensitive zones to let your body reach climax is the most versatile way! Here are all the Air Pulse Stimulators available on our website.

          Ideal for: More commonly used for solo play but can also be used during couple play.

          TIPS FOR USE: Designed to engulf the clitoris with a gentle suction with zero touch pressure waves, they can make a woman cum with minimal to no touch. Here are some things to keep in mind why using a pressure wave clitoral stimulator like the Air Pulse.

          • Use a water-based lube on and around the clitoris as well as the ring of the stimulator’s cup. This should help create a good seal around the clitoris.
          • Keep the vibration setting low while starting off and adjust the intensity as and when you believe you’re ready to handle it.

          PENIS RINGS Rings that make you feel the “power”, these toys are designed to help men experience firmer erections, better stamina and delayed ejaculations. Penis rings aka cock rings come in various shapes and forms. Some don’t even come with the vibration mode but still do the job well. A smart man would ideally choose to invest in this ring rather than pills to consume to improve her overall “performance”. The vibration versions are great for the partner too as it enhances and encourages mutual orgasms. Here are all the Penis Rings available on our website.

          Ideal for: Mostly used for couple play.

          TIPS FOR USE Using a penis ring correctly can really enhance your sexual experience. Here are a few tips to keep in mind to make sure the usage is at its full potential.

          • Don’t forget to apply a decent amount of lube before slipping it on.
          • Do not use the ring for more than 20-30 minutes in one go. Prolonged usage can lead to a painful and unpleasant experience.

          MASTURBATORS AKA STROKERS Ergonomically designed to give a penis a real-life sensation of blow jobs and hand jobs, the pleasure stroker can be a vibrating boon - especially for men who are single and don’t have the opportunity to practice casual sex (responsibly, of course!). It offers 15 different vibrating patterns at 5 varying speeds - basically there’s no competing with it. Don’t just limit it to solo play though. Couples can use it to take their foreplay game to the next level. It’s waterproof, travel-friendly and will give you unbelievably thrilling orgasms. Here are all the Masturbators available on our website.

          Ideal for: More commonly used for solo play but can also be used during couple play.

          TIPS FOR USE: The joy of being able to experience the pleasure of a blowjob or hand job is unparalleled and most men would agree with that. So here are a few tips to keep in mind while using the stroker - designed to give you striking orgasms.

          • Use a generous amount of a water-based lube before sliding it on. Make sure it is wrapped around the shaft of your penis.
          • Start off slow when it comes to exploring the vibration modes and then move on to experimenting with different levels.
          • They’re easy to use, safe and ergonomically designed for intimate use, waterproof and allergen-free. Just make sure you wash them with warm water and unscented soap and store them in a cool and dry place to maintain the quality of the toys.
          Now that you’ve got a quick and easy lowdown on the world of sex toys, we recommend you explore the entire range we have to offer on our website.

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