For Beginners
Beginner Friendly Sex Toys: Where to start
Your first sex toy should be comfortable. Simple to use, easy to hold, easy to clean. You shouldn't need a detailed plan. You just need something that feels good and lets you figure out what you like.
Who is this for?
Anyone who is curious but not sure where to begin. Maybe you're exploring solo. Maybe you want to try something with a partner. Maybe you just want to know what's out there before you buy. This guide covers some of Dr. Tanaya’s top picks along with our current recommendations.
Introducing our Faculty: Dr. Tanaya
Dr. Tanaya, award-winning Oxford trained doctor, best-selling author, and the charismatic maestro known as @dr_cuterus on social media, is an esteemed expert in the realm of pleasure and sexual wellness. With her scientific rigour and enchanting storytelling, she captivates hearts and minds, empowering all who cross her path. Creating a safe and inclusive space, she guides individuals to explore and embrace the wondrous possibilities of their own pleasure.
What to look for in a first toy
Simple controls. A few buttons and clear intensity levels. Nothing confusing.
Low starting intensity. You should be able to begin gently and turn it up only when you want to.
Body safe materials. Smooth, non-porous silicone is easy to clean and kind to skin. All toys on Love Depot are absolutely body safe and verified for authenticity.
A comfortable shape and size. If it's awkward to hold or too big for comfort, you won't enjoy using it the first time.
Range. A toy with multiple speeds or patterns helps you learn what you like.
Tips for your first time
- Start on the lowest setting and go up slowly.
- Use a water-based lubricant always.
- Take your time. There is no rush.
- Pause if anything feels uncomfortable and feel free to explore if something unexpected begins to feel good.
- Wash your toy before and after every use.
